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Flamin · #1 02-26-2011, 09:47 AM

Okay so I'm a senior in high school right? I'm 17 and I've been in this pretty serious relationship with my girlfriend. Well last month we had sex for the first time.

Well I was sitting in Eco (or if your a freshman/sophmore, that's Economics to you), and my girlfriend texted me. She was just all like I need to talk to you about sometime....it's important, my heart had started racing. The last time we had sex, the condom broke, and I'm not sure if I........in her or not. I kept asking her if everything was alright and then she told me.... I had asked her if I had done something wrong and was in trouble. She goes "No I just wanted to ask you if you were careful last time, because I'm late.

My heart dropped....I didn't know what to say. Of course I want the kid. I want her to be the mom too...Just not now....It's too early I don't want her to become one of those teen moms who is looked down upon. I didn't tell her about the condom breaking, she was already worried about becoming pregnant as it was. I didn't want to make her even more nervous.

My thing is what should I do? I don't know how to deal with this situation....Mezala or whoever may read this please don't flame on this....It's a serious matter and I'm freaked out enough, that I could do without your flaming for this...

So guys please help me figure out what I should do....

**ToySoldier** · #2 02-26-2011, 10:17 AM

Kids at young ages are not good.
Abort.

**Peetu** · #3 02-26-2011, 10:24 AM

As rough as this might sound, I'd suggest you to do this. If you're not sure whether you'll live with the baby and the mother or not, suggest her to have an abortion.
Unless you're completely sure that the child will born in a loving and caring home, don't have one. Best for the baby.
If your girlfriend doesn't want an abortion, I suggest you "escape" from her. You did your best trying to convince her that life would be horrible with the baby.

I'm sure it'll be a hard decision, but think what'd be best for the baby.

Mezala · #4 02-26-2011, 10:33 AM

didn't some other idiot post this like 2 years ago

**ToySoldier** · #5 02-26-2011, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by ZelDa

As rough as this might sound, I'd suggest you to do this. If you're not sure whether you'll live with the baby and the mother or not, suggest her to have an abortion.
Unless you're completely sure that the child will born in a loving and caring home, don't have one. Best for the baby.
If your girlfriend doesn't want an abortion, I suggest you "escape" from her. You did your best trying to convince her that life would be horrible with the baby.

I'm sure it'll be a hard decision, but think what'd be best for the baby.

I'd argue it's not a baby yet - Why should he put his future on hold, for something he wasn't planning to happen?

Flamin, what kind of career were you planning to go for?